Because even when there's something you don't have, there's always something else that you do – a space, at least, to turn it all around: if not a house, then a road; if not a road, then a house. And even
The thing is, you need to remind yourself that you are good, regardless of the circumstances. Even if you ran out of time, were late, added too much salt, or ate too much.
practicing one simple mental exercise: during the day, at the end of every appeal to yourself, add “… my dear.” Do it regardless of whether you're praising or reproaching yourself. Compare the difference: “Damn it, you are late again!” and “ Damn it, you are late again, my dear.”
You have the right to think differently. You have the right not to love something you are “supposed” to love. You are all right. You are allowed to do so.
